An amazing adoption essay writing by my daughter its very touching its a must read
https://docs.google.com/a/crestviewschools.net/document/d/1Kjr2ALbyVW0ax6PLpspWIagSAf1O50u1x96TpKa8n4I/edit#
Monday, November 10, 2014
Friday, October 31, 2014
Orphan Sunday-November 2, 2014
This coming up Sunday, November 2nd is Orphan Sunday. Our family gets the privilege of sharing at our local church about orphan care and our passion for defending the "least of these." While doing some research this week I came across a poem that is fitting for this Sunday I wanted to share. Also please check out the short video clip we shared from Francis Chan about Orphan Sunday. Powerful!
Poem by wefostercare
Please don't call me a foster child. I'm someone's son, granddaughter, nephew, great-grandson, sister, god-son. I'm an athlete, a piano player, an artist. I'm an honor-roll student. I'm a child of God. And I happen to be in foster care. Words are powerful-choose them wisely.
Poem by wefostercare
Please don't call me a foster child. I'm someone's son, granddaughter, nephew, great-grandson, sister, god-son. I'm an athlete, a piano player, an artist. I'm an honor-roll student. I'm a child of God. And I happen to be in foster care. Words are powerful-choose them wisely.
Thursday, October 23, 2014
Excited for Saturday-Zombie Frenzy!!!!!!!
Excited for this Saturday! Frame will be out at the Ashland County Fairgrounds for the Zombie Frenzy 5K run to raise funds for local adoptions. The race starts at 10am. Come on out and stop by our table. We will have our brochures, ministry cards and CANDY! The weather is suppose to be beautiful. Hope to see many of you there.
Tuesday, October 21, 2014
The affects of fostering and adopting on our children
I read an interesting blog the other day from an adoptive dad that keeps tugging at my heart strings. The blog talked about the affects of having foster children in your home on your biological children. As you can imagine this is something we have heard about for years. Some people mean well when they share their opinions with you about how they feel what you're doing will affect your children while others come across rude and hurtful. I really believe deep down most people don't mean to come across hurtful, they're just uneducated about the subject. That is why I have been feeling led to share about our own family's experience.
With being foster/adoptive parents for 6+ years and having around 30+ children come and go through our home you can imagine we have experienced a lot of different situations and met a lot of people along the way. Yes some situations were harder to go through than others but I wouldn't change anything. At the time I may have felt differently but looking back now I realize if I changed anything our family may have missed out on something the Lord was trying to teach us or to use our family to reach others for Him.
My honest opinion is our children are far better off from having foster children come and live in our home than if we would've chose not to. Have our children been excited about every child coming, or when the children they have grown to love and bond with leave? Absolutely not! Our children have real feelings just like my husband and I do. We are big on family meetings and we take their feelings in consideration about fostering and adopting. They know the final decision falls on their father and I but we value their opinions. This ministry is a family ministry so we want them to feel a part of it as well.
What is awesome to see from a parental perspective is when new children come to our home seeing our children welcome them with open arms even if they don't quite understand what's going on with the situation. They don't overwhelm the new children but they let them settle in and are there for them as they feel ready. Our children are great about sharing whatever they have to help welcome the new child or children in and make them feel a part of our family. One big thing our children share is my husband and I. We try to make sure we spend quality time with everyone but sometimes when hurt children come to our home they need a little extra tender, loving care for awhile. Our children are great about sharing us so we can share the love of Jesus with these new kiddos. Sometimes though the new children can relate better to one of our children than to my husband or I so our kids will spend time talking with them or helping them with whatever they're going through. This is a blessing because it gives our children an opportunity to be the hands and feet of Jesus to these hurt children.
So yes I realize our children have went through some hard times with us fostering and adopting. I remember when they cried tear after tear because someone they had grown to love had to leave our home. I remember when I had to break up a fight or argument between some of them. I remember when our younger children learned life lessons from when some of the older kids that came to live with us messed up. But, I also remember seeing the kids playing out in the snow together building a snowman. I remember when our adoptive daughter learned how to read a recipe and bake something. I remember seeing the kids play together and laugh together and become friends and sisters and brothers. Not by blood but by love. So even though our children have experienced pain along this journey it has not been in vain. The pain has pointed them to the One who can heal their broken hearts, restore relationships and change lives for eternity, JESUS CHRIST! My desire as a mother is that my children love and want Jesus above everything else in their life. So as much as it hurts me to see them hurt at times, if this temporary pain makes them more like Jesus than it is well worth it.
With being foster/adoptive parents for 6+ years and having around 30+ children come and go through our home you can imagine we have experienced a lot of different situations and met a lot of people along the way. Yes some situations were harder to go through than others but I wouldn't change anything. At the time I may have felt differently but looking back now I realize if I changed anything our family may have missed out on something the Lord was trying to teach us or to use our family to reach others for Him.
My honest opinion is our children are far better off from having foster children come and live in our home than if we would've chose not to. Have our children been excited about every child coming, or when the children they have grown to love and bond with leave? Absolutely not! Our children have real feelings just like my husband and I do. We are big on family meetings and we take their feelings in consideration about fostering and adopting. They know the final decision falls on their father and I but we value their opinions. This ministry is a family ministry so we want them to feel a part of it as well.
What is awesome to see from a parental perspective is when new children come to our home seeing our children welcome them with open arms even if they don't quite understand what's going on with the situation. They don't overwhelm the new children but they let them settle in and are there for them as they feel ready. Our children are great about sharing whatever they have to help welcome the new child or children in and make them feel a part of our family. One big thing our children share is my husband and I. We try to make sure we spend quality time with everyone but sometimes when hurt children come to our home they need a little extra tender, loving care for awhile. Our children are great about sharing us so we can share the love of Jesus with these new kiddos. Sometimes though the new children can relate better to one of our children than to my husband or I so our kids will spend time talking with them or helping them with whatever they're going through. This is a blessing because it gives our children an opportunity to be the hands and feet of Jesus to these hurt children.
So yes I realize our children have went through some hard times with us fostering and adopting. I remember when they cried tear after tear because someone they had grown to love had to leave our home. I remember when I had to break up a fight or argument between some of them. I remember when our younger children learned life lessons from when some of the older kids that came to live with us messed up. But, I also remember seeing the kids playing out in the snow together building a snowman. I remember when our adoptive daughter learned how to read a recipe and bake something. I remember seeing the kids play together and laugh together and become friends and sisters and brothers. Not by blood but by love. So even though our children have experienced pain along this journey it has not been in vain. The pain has pointed them to the One who can heal their broken hearts, restore relationships and change lives for eternity, JESUS CHRIST! My desire as a mother is that my children love and want Jesus above everything else in their life. So as much as it hurts me to see them hurt at times, if this temporary pain makes them more like Jesus than it is well worth it.
Sunday, October 12, 2014
Catching Up!
It's been too long so I thought I should probably start blogging again.
There's been a lot of great things that have happened since last time I wrote.
Let's see...
1. We had the privilege of having 2 awesome kids spend part of the summer with us and now come and see us for weekends every once in awhile.
2. We've met some new people that share in the same passion our family does for defending the fatherless.
3. We enjoyed attending a picnic for foster/adoptive families from our local children services department.
4. We were able to collect A LOT of duffle bags and suitcases for kids in foster care. Our campaign was called, "God's Kids, Not Trash." Too many times children come into foster care carrying whatever belongings they have in a trash bag. We wanted to change that for the children in our county. We also received Bibles and gospel tracts to put in each bag to give to the children. Thanks to everyone who helped support this great cause.
5. We have a couple fun things coming up. We get to set up our Frame table at a local 5K that is raising funds for an adoption and plans are in the works for Orphan Sunday on November 2 at our local church. We also have plans in the work for a Christmas party for our local foster/adoptive families. Excited to meet new people and see what the Lord has in store.
Thank you all for your support and please continue to pray for children that need homes and people to come forward and open not only their homes but their hearts to them and that our family would always have open hearts to be available to be used by God to further His kingdom.
There's been a lot of great things that have happened since last time I wrote.
Let's see...
1. We had the privilege of having 2 awesome kids spend part of the summer with us and now come and see us for weekends every once in awhile.
2. We've met some new people that share in the same passion our family does for defending the fatherless.
3. We enjoyed attending a picnic for foster/adoptive families from our local children services department.
4. We were able to collect A LOT of duffle bags and suitcases for kids in foster care. Our campaign was called, "God's Kids, Not Trash." Too many times children come into foster care carrying whatever belongings they have in a trash bag. We wanted to change that for the children in our county. We also received Bibles and gospel tracts to put in each bag to give to the children. Thanks to everyone who helped support this great cause.
5. We have a couple fun things coming up. We get to set up our Frame table at a local 5K that is raising funds for an adoption and plans are in the works for Orphan Sunday on November 2 at our local church. We also have plans in the work for a Christmas party for our local foster/adoptive families. Excited to meet new people and see what the Lord has in store.
Thank you all for your support and please continue to pray for children that need homes and people to come forward and open not only their homes but their hearts to them and that our family would always have open hearts to be available to be used by God to further His kingdom.
Monday, April 7, 2014
Support group meeting!
Friendly reminder that our next support group meeting will be next Monday, April 14th from 6-8pm at the Butler Township Hall(Adario town hall) in Adario, Ohio. This meeting will be adults only(besides babies) and our family get together will be in June. Please respond to this post with any questions or email us at frame@bethelchapel.com. God bless you!:)
Saturday, March 29, 2014
Exciting things happening in our area!
Exciting things are happening in our area with families from local churches showing an interest in foster care. We had good turnouts both times at the foster care informational sessions at two of our local churches that was led by a campaign of Frame's called MissionJ127. An outreach to get families from our local churches involved in foster care. There are so many ways to be involved in foster care even without being a foster parent. If you are interested in finding out more info about becoming a foster, adoptive, kinship family or becoming involved in foster care please email us at frame@bethelchapel.com, or MissionJ127@gmail.com or (419)962-4763. There will be upcoming training courses starting the end of April for those who want to become a foster parent or get involved in foster care in some way. Please let us know if you're interested in attending and we will get you more information about it.
This past week I was invited to attend a support group in another county with a friend. I got the opportunity to share about Frame and what's going on in our county. One of the ladies there approached me about her wanting to do what we do with Frame in her county. Needless to say I was excited. That is what it's all about. Everyone doing their part where God has planted them. Excited to keep in contact with this lady and encourage her on her journey.
An update about our family. We're all doing good. Just enjoyed Spring break this past week with the kids but as I write this and look out my living room window it looks more like Winter break. That's Ohio!:) Our two oldest are busy with track and softball and are younger two have been busy with helping Grandpa collect sap on the family farm and with robotics with 4H. Actually our whole family is involved in 4H. Soon we will be hearing the chirping of baby turkey's and broilers along with adding rabbits to the bunch this year. Nick recently has started a new job that has been a blessing to our family. He is working close to home with family friendly hours. The Lord is providing for us not only financially but blessing us with more family time together. We're very thankful! I am still subbing full time at our local school as an Educational Aide. Right now we don't have any other children here but we're excited about who the Lord may have for our family and us for them. Our desire is to adopt again and we feel the Lord is leading our family in this way. We're continuing to get our continued training hours as we move in that direction. Please pray for who the Lord may have to add to our family.
Our next support group meeting will be Monday, April 14th from 6-8pm at the Butler Township Hall(Adario town hall) in Adario, Ohio. We hope to see you there.
Thanks for taking the time to read our post and may the Lord bless you and your family.
This past week I was invited to attend a support group in another county with a friend. I got the opportunity to share about Frame and what's going on in our county. One of the ladies there approached me about her wanting to do what we do with Frame in her county. Needless to say I was excited. That is what it's all about. Everyone doing their part where God has planted them. Excited to keep in contact with this lady and encourage her on her journey.
An update about our family. We're all doing good. Just enjoyed Spring break this past week with the kids but as I write this and look out my living room window it looks more like Winter break. That's Ohio!:) Our two oldest are busy with track and softball and are younger two have been busy with helping Grandpa collect sap on the family farm and with robotics with 4H. Actually our whole family is involved in 4H. Soon we will be hearing the chirping of baby turkey's and broilers along with adding rabbits to the bunch this year. Nick recently has started a new job that has been a blessing to our family. He is working close to home with family friendly hours. The Lord is providing for us not only financially but blessing us with more family time together. We're very thankful! I am still subbing full time at our local school as an Educational Aide. Right now we don't have any other children here but we're excited about who the Lord may have for our family and us for them. Our desire is to adopt again and we feel the Lord is leading our family in this way. We're continuing to get our continued training hours as we move in that direction. Please pray for who the Lord may have to add to our family.
Our next support group meeting will be Monday, April 14th from 6-8pm at the Butler Township Hall(Adario town hall) in Adario, Ohio. We hope to see you there.
Thanks for taking the time to read our post and may the Lord bless you and your family.
Tuesday, March 4, 2014
This is our daughter
Want to share with you a poem from a brochure we received Sunday at an informational session about foster care. This poem was part of the material Christian Children's Home had available. This poem is beautifully written and reminds us of our daughter. There is going to be another informational session on foster care tentatively scheduled for the 23rd of this month. More details to come later.
This is our daughter
By Jill Work
THIS IS OUR DAUGHTER
We adopted her,
but we will NOT be
referring to her as
"our adopted daughter."
She is simply "our daughter."
THIS IS OUR DAUGHTER
and the niece of her aunts and uncles,
the granddaughter of her grandparents,
the cousin of her cousins,
and the sister of any future children
we add to the family
by biology or adoption.
THIS IS OUR DAUGHTER
There is no "return policy"
on an adopted child.
The whole idea of adopting
is a lot like marriage.
You make a lifetime commitment
to a person with no biological
relationship to you.
You promise to "love and cherish"
for "richer, for poorer,
for better, for worse,
in sickness and in health-
as long as we both shall live."
THIS IS OUR DAUGHTER
and we ARE her real parents.
She has birth parents,
but we are her Mom an Dad,
and always will be.
This is our daughter
By Jill Work
THIS IS OUR DAUGHTER
We adopted her,
but we will NOT be
referring to her as
"our adopted daughter."
She is simply "our daughter."
THIS IS OUR DAUGHTER
and the niece of her aunts and uncles,
the granddaughter of her grandparents,
the cousin of her cousins,
and the sister of any future children
we add to the family
by biology or adoption.
THIS IS OUR DAUGHTER
There is no "return policy"
on an adopted child.
The whole idea of adopting
is a lot like marriage.
You make a lifetime commitment
to a person with no biological
relationship to you.
You promise to "love and cherish"
for "richer, for poorer,
for better, for worse,
in sickness and in health-
as long as we both shall live."
THIS IS OUR DAUGHTER
and we ARE her real parents.
She has birth parents,
but we are her Mom an Dad,
and always will be.
Saturday, March 1, 2014
Informational meeting on way to get involved with foster care
This Sunday, March 2nd there will two informational meetings held for people interested in learning more about ways to get involved in foster care. The meetings will be held at 1pm and 4pm both at Ashland Grace Brethren Church's Real Life Center. There will be current foster parents there for you to talk with along with representations from Christian Children's Home, The Bair Foundation and F.R.A.M.E. We look forward to seeing you there and helping to answer any questions you may have.
Sunday, January 26, 2014
Support Group Information
In the last blog I wrote about FRAME's support group for North Central Ohio's foster, adoptive and kinship families. Past, current and those interested. Wanted to send out a blog with more specific info. Our first meeting will be Monday, February 10th from 6-8pm at the Butler Township Hall(Adario Town Hall) in Adario, Ohio. It's close to the Adario United Methodist Church. Our first meeting will be for parents only and the meetings to follow childcare will be provided with the couples providing the care having their fingerprints and background checks done. We will meet every other month as our advisory team meets together on the off months. We look forward to encouraging you on your journey as you minister to hurt children and their families.
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