Recently
my hubby had a special gift made for me. Made out of milk glass the
gift was two hearts connected with each other, one being blue and the
other pink with metal going around the edges. I can add ribbon and
hang it in our van. The hearts are to remember our precious babies
that we lost through miscarriage who are in heaven and also all the
other children we've had in our home. I love that I will have that
gift as a reminder of the children and my love for them no matter how
long I knew them. I feel like it's a way of grieving that will help
my heart to feel open to grieve in a positive way. I would encourage
you that no matter what losses you may have had in your life to allow
your heart to grieve. Man or woman, grieving is part of life. Tucking
our hurts away doesn't make the pain leave. Even talking about our
hurt doesn't make the pain leave completely, but it frees us in a way
to continue to enjoy life and not be held down by our hurt. We can
move on without guilt but always holding a special place in our
hearts for those we love and cannot be with now. So I encourage you
to honor your loved ones by allowing your heart to grieve.
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